Growing in Grace

In 2 Timothy Chapter 1-2, Paul is being a spiritual mentor for a younger pastor. Discipleship is simply encouraging and helping another person grow closer to the Lord. Ask yourself, “Who am I mentoring today? Am I leading anyone closer to God?” As followers of Christ, we are called to serve Him by serving others, showing the love of Christ, and leading this world out of darkness and into the Light. How can true followers of Christ serve without helping guide others?

The scripture states in 2 Timothy 1:5, “I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also”

Discipleship is not a job only for Pastors and leaders in the church, it is a job for each and every believer. Paul reminds the younger Pastor in 2 Timothy of the spiritual guidance that he received as a child through his grandmother Lois and mother Eunice. Speaking of the sincere faith that His family members had, Paul goes on to say, “I am persuaded, now lives in your also.” Through the discipleship of his grandmother and mother, this young pastor was able to grow closer to the Lord each day. Their influence encouraged Him, and I can imagine that their prayers were answered the day that he came to know the Lord. Can you imagine the smile on their faces when their son and grandson told them he was going to share the gospel as a pastor?

As a mother of 2 young boys, I am called to disciple my children. Beyond that, I am also called to disciple other people around me. When a person young or old accepts Christ as their Lord and Savior, their journey is just beginning. Some people are saved at such a young age that all that they know about Christ is that He died on the cross and was raised again to save them from their sins. They know that He lived and died but He lives again, and they’ve confessed that He is Lord, but do they know the entire Bible? Do they know how to lead others to Christ? Do they know their spiritual gifts and how to use them for His glory?

When a person is first saved, the Bible says that they are “babies in the faith.”

“Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation” 1 Peter 2:2

Babies in the faith need nurturing, care, and guidance to grow in the Lord. If you are a new believer in Christ, I encourage you to find a spiritual mentor to disciple you in the faith. Disciple does not mean discipline; instead, it means to guide and help you grow closer to the Lord. A spiritual mentor will help you through hard times and answer your questions when you stumble upon scripture that you might not understand completely. Keep in mind that your spiritual mentor does not have to be the Pastor or a leader at your church. Y

Your spiritual mentor needs to be:
1) Strong in their walk with Christ both inside and outside of the church.
2) A firm believer in the Word of God, not wavering.
3) Available to help you, pray with you, and answer your questions
4) Wise and understanding of God’s Word.
5) A true example of how someone should live and serve Christ

Find someone you can trust and depend on for guidance. I promise that if you will reach out to someone and just ask for help, they will be there for you. If you are unsure of who to go to, go to your Pastor and ask him who would be a good spiritual mentor for me? I guarantee he will be able to point you in the right direction. God does not want you to live this life alone. He wants you to be helped by others so that in the future you can disciple someone else as well. We are all just a part of His plan. Start today by deciding to find the guidance you need.

To the followers of Christ living for the Lord and able to disciple others: Who are you being a spiritual mentor to today? If you aren’t a spiritual mentor to anyone, open your eyes. There are “baby Christians” all around you that need your help. Don’t waste another moment in your Christian bubble. It’s easy to consider yourself a Christian, strong in the faith because of your attendance at every Bible Study and worship service there is, but if you aren’t practicing discipleship and living out His Word, what are you doing?

The Bible says in James 1:22-25, “But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.23 For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks intently at his natural face in a mirror. 24 For he looks at himself and goes away and at once forgets what he was like. 25 But the one who looks into the perfect law, the law of liberty, and perseveres, being no hearer who forgets but a doer who acts, he will be blessed in his doing.

You can disciple a young believer by simply praying with them when they are in need. When you pass them at church each Sunday, ask them how they are doing. You must intentionally reach out to new believers and make a point to help them grow in their faith. Remember that they will need nurturing and care just as a newborn baby does. Encourage them daily. Text them scripture or send them a card. Do whatever it takes to help them stay on the path that Christ has laid before them.

The Bible says in Colossians 3:17, “And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” When you are working unto the Lord, whether it’s by serving in the church or community, or mentoring someone that needs guidance, you are doing God’s work.

We are called to be the hands and feet of Christ. Start today. If you are a follower of Christ, strong in your walk, find someone to disciple, mentor, and guide closer to the Lord. If you are a new Christian, don’t be ashamed to ask for help. Talk to your pastor about helping you find a spiritual mentor, join a small group, and connect to others that will lead you closer to God and not further from His Presence.

Praying for you always!

May God Bless you and show you His grace every day!

Cling to His Word

Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.” Colossians 3:15

November 10th – 17th, 2018, my husband went on his second mission trip to Cuba. His first trip was in April of 2018, and after that trip, he knew he would go back the next time he had the chance. To be honest, before the trip, we had no idea how we would be able to afford for him to be able to go back. Even with the church paying a portion of the trip, we would not be able to afford it.

About a month before the trip, our Pastor announced that there were still openings for the Cuba trip. Looking at my husband, I knew he wanted to go, but I also knew that we had medical bills a mile high that limited our financial ability. For about 6 months prior to the mission trip, I experienced major health problems with my blood pressure. The doctors tried multiple medications and sent me to a cardiologist for a full work. In the next few months, I had an EKG, ultrasound of my kidneys, CT scan, echo-cardiogram, and multiple rounds of bloodwork. Each test came back with no results but hefty bills. In the meantime, I was left being a test dummy for medication after medication with multiple side effects. It was the longest 6 months of my life. Age 30 was not going too well for me. Eventually, the doctors seemed to get my blood pressure under control but told me to expect to be a frequent flyer to the cardiologist for the rest of my life. High blood pressure and heart trouble runs in my family, so I try my best to stay as healthy as I can.

Needless to say, bills were flowing in and money was flowing out. We were pushing it to make it from paycheck to paycheck. A few weeks before the trip, I reached out the group leader and asked her what the cost would be for the trip. I knew that if it was God’s will for Dustin to go on the trip, we would find a way. Within a few minutes of messaging the leader, she messaged me back and said that his way was paid in full. We may never know how or why this happened, but we do know that God had a plan. Just thinking about that day gives me chills. When I walked in the living room and told my husband he needed to start packing for Cuba, he was overjoyed with excitement. God provided a way for my husband to serve him in Cuba when there was no way we could do it on our own.

 “For nothing will be impossible with God.” Luke 1:37

When Dustin returned from the trip, he was full of stories about how God worked while they were there. From the 80 lights they were able to provide to the new church in Cuba to the families that received Christ, he was overjoyed and filled with the Spirit. One of the stories that stuck out to me the most was of a woman that they met on their previous trip. When they went to Cuba in April, they met a woman on visitation and were able to lead her to the Lord and give her a new testament Bible. She was so proud of her new Bible she received in the Spring that they decided to take her a full Bible when they went back in the Fall. Tears came to her eyes as they handed her the full Bible. She hugged the Bible the entire time the team was there talking to her.

How often do we forget the simple things in life? How often do you forget how blessed you truly are? My husband and I probably have 5 extra Bibles sitting on our bookshelf at home. On top of that, we have another bookshelf filled with Christian devotionals and commentaries that we’ve probably only read a time or two. We have so much to be thankful for yet we hardly even think about the little things right in front of our eyes.

When was the last time you hugged your Bible and thanked God for His Word? There are people all over the world that may never hold the Word of God in their hands, yet you are privileged to own multiple Bibles. When you feel like you have nothing in this world, hold onto His Word and remember how blessed you truly are.

Watch Your Mouth!

In James Chapter 3:1-12, James opens our eyes to the fact that not every word that comes out of a person’s mouth is needed. When you speak, are you speaking as though Christ dwells within you? What do your words say about Christianity? Do they encourage others to follow Christ or showcase hypocrisy and deter people from going to church?

One of the most common excuses I’ve heard from people about why they won’t go to church is, “the church is full is hypocrites.” To be honest, it’s the truth. The church, as well as the world, is filled with hypocrites that act one way on Sunday, holy and happy, then drastically change their attitude the minute they wake up on Monday morning. In a two-faced world, how can others see the love of Christ? How does your attitude differ on Sunday? Can you tell a difference?

Just last night, I had an argument with a good friend that really struck me off guard.

Keep in mind, the morning after our argument, I went to Sunday school and our scripture was on James Chapter 3 about  “controlling our tongues.”

About a month ago, we had a get together where apparently something was said that offended her. The whole night we talked, laughed, and let the kids play while we played a few board games. (I know it sounds lame but it was a lot of fun) In my eyes, nothing was wrong when she left, and everyone had a good time together; however, in her eyes, I extremely upset her in some way. For over a month, we didn’t talk to each other. I would send her messages and she would rarely send back anything. I knew something was wrong but didn’t want to bother her. To be honest, I just thought she was busy with work and didn’t have time to get back to me. We are both adults, so life does get busy. Last night, I finally gave in and asked her if everything was okay. What did I do that was so wrong? Did I hurt her in any way? When she finally told me what happened, I literally was shocked. I had no idea that at some point during that get together about a month prior I had offended her by some comment that I had made. I still don’t know what comment was, but I do know that it hurt her pretty bad and that breaks my heart. I perceded to ask her for forgiveness and try to figure out where I went wrong but somehow the conversation blew up in my face and now I don’t know what will become of our friendship. It only takes one word, or perception of a comment, to ruin a friendship and ruin your “Christ-like image. One way or the other, one of the words I said, hurt one of my best friends. I can never take those words back, but I can learn from my mistakes and grow in my walk with Christ by trying to be more like Him and less like myself.

The Bible says in John 3:30 “He must increase and I must decrease.” I think it’s time I remind myself to let Him take the lead with my words.

Was I wrong for being sarcastic, making a joke, and not even knowing I hurt someone? Or was she wrong for not confronting me about it immediately so the problem could be resolved? The truth is, we both were in the wrong, and hopefully we both learned a lesson that we can grow from, restore our friendship, and prevent future struggles. Friendships are not easy at any age. Treasure your friendships and treat each friend as though they are a gift from God. One day, they will be gone and you’ll wonder what you did to push them away.

When you speak, think twice about what you say. What if you never see that person again? Was that simple argument worth being the last words you spoke to them? What about your silence, if you lost your friend today, would you miss that month you ignored them? What can you do to be a better friend, family member, or even coworker?

For now, I don’t know where our friendship will go or if it will be restored, but I do know that I will watch my mouth a little closer next time and all the time.

Now if we put the bits into the horses’ mouths so that they will obey us, we direct their entire body as well. Look at the ships also, though they are so great and are driven by strong winds, are still directed by a very small rudder wherever the inclination of the pilot desires.” James 3:4-5

Your words will direct your path and the paths of others. Beware of what you say, one wrong word could send a friend down a path of destruction, depression, and pain. What path are your words leaving behind?

This poem was written as the last words of someone you hurt. Don’t let this friend be the friend you left behind.

When I die will you miss me?

Will you know who I was?

Will you remember our last fight?

Will you remember the words?

What will happen when you open your eyes?

When you realize I’m gone and no longer alive?

What about the words you can never get back?

The night I left and felt under attack?

The silence we started will forever go on.

Because you never realized one day I’d be gone.

Think before you speak. Words have more power than you know.

Your friends are gifts from God, always treat them and all people, with respect and love. Show them Christ even when you are joking or just kidding around. Christ’s love is your witness to this world. Are you sharing His love with others?

“So also the tongue is a small part of the body, and yet it boasts of great things. See how great a forest is set aflame by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, the very world of iniquity; the tongue is set among our members as that which defiles the entire body and sets on fire the course of our life and is set on fire by hell. For every species of beasts and birds, of reptiles and creatures of the sea, is tamed and has been tamed by the human race. But no one can tame the tongue; it is a restless evil and full of deadly poison.” James 3:5-8

Your words can either set a fire that spreads the love of Christ for generations to come or a fire that destroys everything in its path. The choice is yours, choose wisely.

May God Bless You and Show You His Grace Every Day!